Clearly, I seem to have completed a certain phase of life.
Which? Let’s just call it a study-phase. Ok, for some this may not seem to be a
rather big achievement but for me it is. I am not against education or anything;
in fact I am very pro-education to a certain basic level. After that it is the
choice of the individual. You may seem a little lost here, so let me just
explain you my scenario.
I have recently completed my graduation with first-class
results and I got a job even before my final semester results were out (A bit
of self-praise is permissible, right?). In my final year, I was desperate to find
a job since I didn’t want to leave myself hanging as I didn’t quite actually
fancy further education. I wasn’t looking for something in particular but I
would have been happy with anything which didn’t involve finance. I was lucky
enough to land up a job within my area of interests. Good company, adorable
colleagues, what more to ask?
When people tell me that you got a great opportunity to work
in a good profile in the area of your specialisation, I have been wanting to
tell them that I chose marketing over finance as I hated it little lesser than
the other. This brings us to question, where does my passion lie? To be frank,
I don’t know. I didn’t know it even while I was choosing my graduation course
and I don’t know it now either. Not to worry, in the midst of this confusion, I
got hold of a graduation degree which I call it the license to follow your
dreams (Only thing is that I am yet identify THAT dream). This tag because parental
pressure subsides a little though not completely since their next target is MBA!
Fair enough. To my parents and to all my well wishers who recently suggested
that I do away with my MBA as soon as possible else I might just lose interest
in studies and become absorbed by the job, I am very overwhelmed with your
concern about my future. I want you all to appreciate the stability in my life,
a job where I work with dedication and not ignorance even though this not what
I wanted. I take this to be a good learning opportunity for my life ahead and
if everything fails a good cushion-pillow to fall upon. I don’t want to rush into
doing things simply because that’s what others do. I want to be responsible for
the decisions I take for myself and I don’t want to be blaming others.
It is so much easier to feed stuff in your blog right? Only
if I could explain my parents and relatives ALL OF THIS convincingly, life
would be much better. But I am such a silent cow and don’t wish to break their
hearts either.
I know something exciting lies ahead in my life! J
P.S. Your suggestions are most welcome.
Great start for a great blog!
ReplyDeleteYay for the new blog, Neha. :)
ReplyDeleteI can't believe parents & relatives would be (disappointed?) in you. You graduated for God's sake. I should clue you in on what's happening in my life, education wise. I mean people are really shocked & giving my mother sympathy. But I couldn't be happier. Follow your dreams, it's the only way to go.
PS- If possible please disable captcha/word verification. Blogger has made it super annoying & unnecessarily difficult.
Sometimes you need to do things anyway because well wisher turns into hypocrites and parents turns into investors.
ReplyDeleteanyway good luck.